Friday 9 October 2015

Male Water Sports / Golden Showers


In sexual terminology water sports / golden showers involve the act of urination as part of consensual sexual foreplay.

While this form of sexual play may not be considered mainstream or everyday by most gay or bi men, I am constantly surprised by the interest in the subject. It’s seen by many guys I know as slightly taboo, but ‘I’m up for it if you are’.

Location:
It’s NOT a bedroom activity, so you need a wet area such as a shower recess, a bath or perhaps a secluded outdoor location.

Preparation:
When it’s agreed to be part of sex it should be decided if it’s a one-way spray or that both will take part. That’s important, as a full bladder generally can’t be held back from release too long. Also important is whether one will be ready to perform as soon as he arrives, or will you both drink socially for a period of time before then getting started.

If only one is pissing, and he is arriving for the encounter fully charged, then the other needs to be prepared for an immediate dousing on his arrival by being naked. Holding back a sack full of pee will certainly focus attention to the exclusion of all other thoughts and activities.

Steadily drinking water over a thirty to forty-five minute period seems to be a good basis for a long and steady flow. Beer is good too, and for a fresher taste consume fruit juice.

Have your sex play area also ready, along with several towels at both the urination area and the sex play area.

Playing:
Younger guys will generally have a stronger flow than older men so take this into consideration when choosing your location and how the act(s) will be performed.

- Have your partner stand naked while you pee all over him
- Lick his balls while he sprays your head and shoulders
- Pee on his arse-crack letting the warmth run down over his balls
- Have him squat or be on his knees in front of you in order to shower his body and face including mouth if he is inclined
- Lie on your back in the base of the shower or bath whilst the urinating partner flows it all over you
- If your partner likes the taste, fill his mouth with urine (it’s sterile so no issues there though missing the first squirt that could hold bacteria is a good idea).

Closing your eyes while being sprayed I suggest is also a good idea, though watching a steady warm stream tumble down over your naked body is a turn on to most guys. A feeling of degradation, being humiliated or taking part in a ‘dirty’ act could flash in to your mind, any one of which could satisfy an inner sexual desire.

The feeling of warm piss firstly hitting your excited, expectant body and secondly, flowing over you as he hose-pipes it from your toes to your head, is a feeling like no other. Don’t necessarily expect a spontaneous erection, though that is a possibility.

When you’ve both finished that is the time for mutual body contact. Slip sliding around, skin on skin is a joyful erotic experience. Use your hands to spread the warm golden juice all over your partner, frottage his cock and stomach, embrace him from behind and squirm into each other. Give him oral and taste those last droplets as well as enjoy the new sensational taste remaining on the shaft. Kiss him and taste the erotic remains of the pee on his lips.

For me there’s a delicious feeling of decadence involved in this mutual abandonment of pleasuring. It’s not something talked about in polite conversation, but when you are caught up in the eroticism of abandonment and spreading his warm juice all over you, then don’t be surprised that you could feel the most sexually liberated person on the planet.

You can eventually shower and soap each other in order to prepare yourselves for the continuation of your lovemaking or you can slip off to the bedroom where you have already prepared towels. Two pee-soaked men licking and loving, sucking and fucking is a wild sensation. The pee will quickly dry but you’ll still notice its tang, its aroma and it’s subtle feeling of decadence now planted deep inside your brain where it’s heightening your erotic pleasures. As a result don’t be surprised if you have one of your most uninhibited sexual encounters - ever!

Water Sports for the Single Man:
And if you like the feeling of warm urine against your skin and you’re all alone, then it’s time to pee your pants. While watching porn, eyeing the boys in speedos or being just plain horny, piss away inside your jeans and jocks and feel the erotic pleasures it can give. As it cools the pleasures will subside, but for those few moments of warm liquid intensity it’s a tactile pleasure that can be as intense and enjoyable as any masturbation activity.

All photos courtesy Tumblr
Or if your stream is strong enough, drink your own golden juice.

Water Sports for Groups:
At the extreme end of water sports are the men who like to lie in a trough-like situation where lots of other men can piss on their naked body over an extended period of time. There are dance and sex parties where this happens near the toilets, hence no need for urinals.


If you're on the cusp of wanting to experiment with the slightly kinky or a bit of domination, then consider a water sport experiment as a possible way of easing you and your consenting partner into this new experience. It's safe, fun, tactile and very pleasurable. 







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