Follow by Email

Wednesday, 15 May 2013

Jack Off Clubs / Group Masturbation / Wank Groups / Circle Jerks






Visiting a jack-off group can be a great first-step activity for the bi-curious man of any age, whether married or not, who would like to share fun time with other like-minded naked men.  It is a totally safe sex event.

Let me list a few benefits that might interest you:

-       every one is playing in the one room all totally naked (except maybe, for optional footwear)
-       all the men are masturbating each other as pairs or in groups, with participation usually mandatory
-       a wide diversity of ages, culture, body sizes and shapes attend
-       the lights are on high enough to see your partners
-       there’s a lot of conversation and laughter
-       there should be no attitude
-       every one plays in the one room so there’s erotic eye-candy everywhere
-       HIV+ men are welcome and their status is irrelevant in the play area
-       as there is no oral other than kissing and no anal, this is a totally safe-sex event
-       there is no pressure to perform sexually to anyone’s standards. No one is keeping check as to whether or not you cum, get an erection or shoot x number of times
-       it’s about pleasuring
-       it’s about feeling part of a like-minded community
-       it’s about group pleasuring and that’s so different to jacking off on your own or having one-to-one sex in private
-       you can actually touch and pleasure a naked man. Yes, all those lustful looks and thoughts you have when you look at men under communal showers can now become an instant reality
-       expect to find a good proportion of the attendees to be married men

The rules, which are generally universal to all groups include:
-       no fucking
-       no sucking
-       no arse play
-       no force
In summary, “no lips below the hips”.  This is a totally safe sex event.

Some perceived disadvantages might include:
-       it’s regarded by some, especially in the gay community, as ‘not real sex’.  By their standards if you don’t have penetration then you’ve failed the gay sex test. It’s my belief that they have missed the pleasures of the journey that leads to ejaculation
-       different groups use their own favourite lubricants, and these can range from sexual lubricants and commercial hand creams to various forms of vegetable and massage oils. Most will have showers to clean up under but you may have to hide or explain some residue on your skin when you get home
-       they don’t meet often enough. Once you discover this like-minded group of men you may believe that you have found Nirvana and that you want it to be a frequent part of your dual sex life
-       they often meet at night which can be tricky for married guys to attend
-       you’ll soon know how sexually confidant you are when you stand naked in front of some 25+ guys who are beckoning you to come join then for a play

In summary, these groups are very friendly and welcoming.

For a bi-curious man who enjoys his first visit he’ll realise that his sexuality is welcomed, his daily life remains as anonymous as he wants it to be or not be, he knows he doesn’t have to have the body of an Adonis to be sexually attractive to other men, and he can physically have totally safe man-to-man sexual contact without labelling himself gay, queer or bisexual.  He’s simply a man, enjoying the brotherhood and masculinity of other men, in a way that satisfies his inner yearnings for intimacy.

Click here to read more about what it feels like to attend a j/o party...  More about group masturbation...

For a full list of group links visit:


Groups meet regularly in many American cities, Vancouver and in Melbourne (Australia).  The oldest clubs are the:

New York Jacks (35 years – meet twice a week) http://www.nyjacks.com/

San Francisco Jacks (31 years – meet 2nd and 4th Monday each month) http://www.sfjacks.com/

Melbourne Wankers (25 years – meet 2nd and 4th Monday each month) http://www.melbournewankers.com.au



Everyone can now read Kindle ebooks: If you use an iphone or other smartphone, tablet or computer simply download the FREE app on the Amazon book page next to the Book Description and you'll be up and reading in seconds. Or visit: http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html?docId=1000493771


A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS: How And Where To Find Your Man 

When it is time to have sex with men, you need answers! 

Don't f**k up the potentially hottest sex time in your life by not knowing the facts. I'm the ex-married gay man who writes this blog, so I'm sharing my experiences with you in this easy-to-read ebook so that your sex with guys can be brilliant and always available. 

It's the best couple of dollars you'll ever invest!

ebook download at:


THE VERSATILE HUSBAND: Live Your Passion This is a more comprehensive version of A STRAIGHT MAN’S GUIDE TO SAME SEX HOOK-UPS and includes examining why as sexually frustrated men we feel the way we do and what can be done to improve the situation. Particularly useful for any married man who needs more detail  before deciding whether or not to sexually play with men.

e-book and paperback at Amazon.com or
paperback only at your favourite online or local bookstore.

For a plain blank unidentifiable eBook cover edition of The Versatile Husband go tohttp://www.amazon.com/Versatile-Husband-Plain-Cover-ebook/dp/B009V5AXEI

"A straightforward, practical guide for men in heterosexual relationships who'd like to explore sex with other men. Frank, honest and understanding."Kirkus Reviews


TALES FROM THE FUR SIDE: Purrfectly Adorable Cat Stories
A collection of entertaining tall tales, and (possibly) true, from the secret lives of cats - as told by the cats themselves!  Mischief. Mayhem. History. Heroism. Revenge and Reflection - this is life as lived on the fur side, beyond the prying eyes of humans – where wisdom, adventure and love mix abundantly with mystery, murder and exotic locations.  A treat for everyone who shares their life with a cat.

New to ship cruising? Get helpful tips about onboard procedure, an invaluable Check List as to what you'll need  to pack for shore excursions, PLUS details of 25 of the best European and Baltic shore excursions that I've undertaken. Make sure you have the best possible cruise - for all the right reasons.

CRUISE EXCURSIONS: 25 of the Best European Cruise Ship and Baltic Cruise Ship Shore Trips by Peter Benn      e-book or paperback


15 comments:

  1. I have always enjoyed group jerking off since i was 14. I enjoy semie nude getogether with other men. After working hours i would go to my bosses home and strip to my sock feet like he did and get off sever times in an evening. i also really get hard with my freinds while they are wearing just dress socks. and i really get hard while they watch me jerk my large penis(8.5 thick uc). men wearing just socks is very sexy and also gives you a clean up towel. Happy jacking ! have done it with a group of guys 12 of them and i was just the only one jacking and in just my sockfeet. it was hot !

    ReplyDelete
  2. Sounds like fun cant wait

    ReplyDelete
  3. Spml is a free private all male only group & lounge for selected & approved gay/bi/straight/single/married/curious aussie men 18-50 for more info click link http://mayeshilljay.wix.com/spurt-mens-lounge

    ReplyDelete
  4. Can any one give me any information on jack off groups in London or Canterbury ?
    I'm going to be in England for a month and would love a good wank with some guys !
    I'm married, very safe and I think it's even more erotic than full on sex. Thanks

    ReplyDelete
  5. I like my orgasms to be stronger and longer

    ReplyDelete
  6. I have better orgasms at 57 than I never did at 18

    ReplyDelete
  7. my orgasms are stronger and longer than when i was 18

    ReplyDelete
  8. I had my first cum when I was 11

    ReplyDelete
  9. join mime at; www.daburghjacks.com

    ReplyDelete
  10. been wanking since i was 13 now i am 70

    ReplyDelete